Sunday, March 1, 2026

Facebook Posted Thoughts: Perceived Accusations, being Hated, and Staying Steadfast


I heard a new song called “Hated” by Zac Williams. The most powerful line in the song is “Being loved by the world is overrated; I’d rather be hated for loving you.”

Accusations can ruin a person’s livelihood, relationships, reputation, self-confidence, self-assurance, self-respect, and self-regard. It is painful to be degrading and humiliated in the judgmental public square. Standing firm against the world trying to break you on every level but the worst is when you are so overwhelmed you bend to the blows that crushes your spirit. Hold on to your integrity and the principles you hold dear.

"Do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you" (1 Peter 4:12-14).

"I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us" (Romans 8:18).

Perceived guilt is the appearance of being responsible for wrongdoing, even if the person is innocent or the situation is misinterpreted. Perceived guilt and blatant guilt represent two distinct levels of evidence and interpretation, frequently appearing in legal, professional, and social settings. Perceived guilt is subjective, relying on circumstantial evidence, behavior, or suspicion, while blatant guilt is objective, obvious, and supported by direct evidence.

Perceived guilt and blatant guilt differ primarily in their visibility, certainty, and origin, with blatant guilt being a clear violation of moral or social codes, while perceived guilt often involves subjective, distorted, or imagined wrongdoing.

Ever been accused and then found guilty of a perceived discriminatory act? There are so many policies and procedures in the workplace now where there is no evidence of wrongdoing that is blatant, but use the word “race” and “perceived,” then the person is charged as guilty before even walking into the firing squad of executive accusers. It is inevitable the person will be written up, suspended, or even worse fired over a perceived accusation. There is no “not guilty” until the accusation is blatantly proven to be true. Show no mercy, but isolate, belittle, bully, and interrogate unrelentingly until the accused folds.

How does one stand up to this kind of work environment? It is toxic! It is depressing! And it is just so wrong. To stand up against such dysfunction seems so monumentally difficult. It is not hidden. People see it and fear is overwhelming when you see you could be the next person on the chopping block for some “perceived” wording or behavior.

“These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren” (Proverbs 6: 16-19).

A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speaks lies will not escape (Proverbs 19: 5).

A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speaks lies shall perish. (Proverbs 19: 9).

There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, But the tongue of the wise promotes health. The truthful lip shall be established forever, But a lying tongue is but for a moment. Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, But counselors of peace have joy. No grave trouble will overtake the righteous, But the wicked shall be filled with evil. Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal truthfully are His delight. (Proverbs 12: 18-22)

Prayers for those being falsely accused through words or behaviors. The world will judge you in ways that seem so unfair, but there is one who will bring you peace. Jesus will walk with you like the footprints in the sand. You are not alone. My prayer is that you feel supported by those who know you and love you. Let this song wash over you and know the weight of this world’s betrayal is only temporary.

Blessings,
dreamsdontfade.com

(finishing up Barton's: American History in Black & White. Soon to start posting notes on the book “When Culture Hates You.” Finally, I will post my notes on my next class on the rise of Marxism and Islam.)

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